Change doesn’t happen without tension.
The agonising torture of a bad performance review, the discomfort of a scolding, the awkwardness of your poor small talk, the feeling of inadequacy, the thought of being left behind, a look of disgust, the pain of being ridiculed for your eccentricity.
Whilst it might feel uncomfortable, if one’s goal is change then dialling up the tension can work wonders.
Thomas Duggan 