Feelin used

On one end of the spectrum it feels good to help out another human being.

On the other end it feels like I’m being taken advantage of.

I think if you are the requestor you can guage what extreme people are nearest by whether they avoid eye contact when you approach or their eyes light up at your arrival.

Then virtually speaking I think the key metric is speed of response.

Either way, whether they are sick of you or they love you, I think more human connection is always the answer.