Envy is going to rear it’s ugly head every now and then and I think it’s healthiest to use it.
Envy is a sign of desire.
You don’t get envious of terminally ill people.
You get jealous of those you feel are doing better than you in an area you’d like to be further along.
So I think the skill is to nip the envy in the bud early and transform it into goals for yourself.
Rather than ruin a relationship with someone you love.
Use it as a beacon of guidance not a wildfire that destroys your relationship.
Thomas Duggan 