Have you ever had an insight into someone’s mind and thought – “yeesh that’s a grim dark place”
You get a taste of the hate they’re carrying around and all of a sudden you feel grateful for your demons.
You wonder what made them that way and if you can keep your distance to avoid contamination.
Unfortunately this creates a vicious cycle for the self hater.
They display their pricky side because they believe they’re unlovable so drive people away, thereby proving they’re unlovable and slip deeper into the self hating cave.
You feel bad and you’d like to help them but at the same time you’re not a gluton for punishment.
Thomas Duggan 