It looks like a lot of mental anguish can be reduced by disciplined categorisation.
Does this problem fit within your circle of control, circle of influence, or circle of concern?
Circle of concern, I suppose.
Ok well I can see your problem right away, you’re trying to control something you have no control over and it’s causing you anguish. So stop that. Stop that now! Dial it down to the appropriate levels immediately and don’t let me catch you doing it again.
Ugh fine.
Thomas Duggan 