I think one added dimension of loneliness is not just being on your own and wanting social interaction, it’s also a craving for a deep meaningful kind of interaction.
That’s where all these poets and songwriters talk about being surrounded by people and still feeling lonely.
Therefore, walking into Woodies and pretending not to know anything about soil to keep the poor staff member talking to you doesn’t scratch that itch.
You want to open up and feel seen, validated, and heard.
I think it’s the lack of these style of conversations that make loneliness hurt.
Thomas Duggan 