'Look at you, do you think you're going through a grunge phase or something?' 'Well you know, I saw the David Beckham documentary ... 'Oh I love that documentary!' ... The way they pounced on the Beckham documentary and didn't continue with the grunge put downs makes me think all they were looking for was … Continue reading Interesting topic search →

Why didn't I get a straight answer there? I think it was easier for them to ramble like they did than to say 'I don't know'.

There's something very evolutionary about cleaning out your closet.It feels like you're shedding the skins of yesteryear to make room for your new and better (however you define it) sense of style.

The match was cancelled.One player suggested using the same time and venue to do an extra training session.Out of 30 only two others took them up on it.Right then and there we separated those only here for the fun and those looking to improve themselves.

Why are there so many last-minute projects?They're too stressful to be enjoyable!I think it's because some folk have fallen into the bad habit of relying on the urgency of 'No time left' to provide all the motivation to work.

When you're young and naive and don't recognize the norms, dating is a nightmare. But once you see the patterns and realize how to play the game then dating becomes quite fun.Rinse and repeat for the working world, school, college, dinner parties, family events etc etc Path to sanity:Step 1 - spotting the gameStep 2 … Continue reading Spotting the game →

It wasn't meant to be. What do you mean? You just weren't supposed to be in Paris this weekend What? I believe that had you gone to Paris this weekend that you would have been mugged or shot. ... In other words a larger than life figure stepped in to help you avoid a disaster. … Continue reading It wasn’t meant to be →

In my experience of making stupid errors they are so much easier when done in private.Similarly they are made a hundred times worse at the mere thought of confessing to others.For example if you had decided on a secret spur of the moment trip to London but in the excitement of being so spontaneous you … Continue reading Telling others shame →

For someone who's only known self criticism all their life, the 'loving yourself no matter what' philosophy is a mind bending paradigm. How do you get anything done? How do you determine the good days from the bad days? This logic means you could sit on the couch all day vegetating and the next cure … Continue reading Loving oneself →

In the same way that hate begets hate I reckon lethargy begets lethargy