Their jokey theories of the past didn't bother me because I was comfortable with the truth. I knew what happened and why. I have conviction in the solidness of my intentions and no jokey theories could shake that.

"We're not getting the ball out to the right wing enough" Now, is there actually opportunities to exploit out on the right wing or are you just saying that because you'd like to touch the ball more? I think you can tell the size of someone's ego based on the selfishness of the feedback. Are … Continue reading Benefits who? →

I think planning is important and preparation is crucial but once the project/game/battle begins you have to adapt to what's happening in front of you.

The quiet humble girl afraid of appearing cocky doesn't share with her family that she's up for an award in work. I think this is a shame and that there is a shade of communication where you can share the big achievements in your life without it coming across as bragging. Because in some cases, … Continue reading Sharing not bragging →

I think one of the most exciting and nerve-wracking aspects of sport is the time pressure. It doesn't matter if you have a 100% success rate in training, in order to get the points you have to kick the conversion in the game. No we can't postpone the game until your best player is back … Continue reading Sport and time →

I think assertiveness is such a cool skill because in the face of infinite possibilities you're not overwhelmed by perfection but strongly asserting a direction.

Anxiety: "But what if you make a mistake? That alone is cause to be nervous." Therapist: "And what exciting outcomes are possible too?" I could be so good, I win MVP Therapist: "What else?" ... Anxiety unchecked could have you paralyzed with fear. But listing enough dreamlike possibilities (that we recognize may not come true) … Continue reading Anxiety unchecked →

Michael Jordan's ambition was to be the best basketball player in the world so he used his creativity, problem solving skills and imagination to answer questions like: How can I remain dominant despite aging? There was never a need to tell Michael to go practice, his motivation was relentless. Whether as Golaf's ambition is simply … Continue reading Ambitions →

The theories in my head are best tested by outside perspectives. Nothing shows up conspiracy better than another witness to the scenario completely baffled by my suggestion.

The announcement came through, there is gonna be a morning TV segment on the local community. And the gender split of those who replied was 2 guys and 16 girls. Now you could argue this isn't a statistically big enough sample to make any comment on society. Or you could say this is a great … Continue reading Local TV segment →