"Well why don't you just ask him yourself?" And right there and then Jodie came to the crux of the problem. Mathaniel didn't want to tarnish his relationship with Tobert but was happy to sully Jodie's.

Regretta was incredibly soft with some people. She was forgiving of their blatant flaws and compassionate with their catastrophic mistakes. But then with others she came down hard as a pile of bricks. It was black and white thinking. 'They should have done better' I think the difference was whether you were in her imaginary … Continue reading Regretta’s inner circle →

Killers of the flower moon got 5 stars from Rolling stones magazine and from the Irish Independent and from The Guardian. And upon seeing this I thought to myself the media always give rave reviews about the latest movie. I wonder if that would change if the review was not attributed to 'Rolling Stones' but … Continue reading 5 star reviews →

I think in the workplace it's easy to confuse leadership with unsolicited advice.

'Look at you, do you think you're going through a grunge phase or something?' 'Well you know, I saw the David Beckham documentary ... 'Oh I love that documentary!' ... The way they pounced on the Beckham documentary and didn't continue with the grunge put downs makes me think all they were looking for was … Continue reading Interesting topic search →

Why didn't I get a straight answer there? I think it was easier for them to ramble like they did than to say 'I don't know'.

There's something very evolutionary about cleaning out your closet.It feels like you're shedding the skins of yesteryear to make room for your new and better (however you define it) sense of style.

The match was cancelled.One player suggested using the same time and venue to do an extra training session.Out of 30 only two others took them up on it.Right then and there we separated those only here for the fun and those looking to improve themselves.

Why are there so many last-minute projects?They're too stressful to be enjoyable!I think it's because some folk have fallen into the bad habit of relying on the urgency of 'No time left' to provide all the motivation to work.

When you're young and naive and don't recognize the norms, dating is a nightmare. But once you see the patterns and realize how to play the game then dating becomes quite fun.Rinse and repeat for the working world, school, college, dinner parties, family events etc etc Path to sanity:Step 1 - spotting the gameStep 2 … Continue reading Spotting the game →