I think there is a number of reasons why people become lecturers. Some love the teaching aspect, the knowledge sharing and nurturing of minds. They get a kick out of seeing someone progress, ask the right questions, inquire deeper, and master a topic. Some crave the academia and furthering of their own knowledge and clearly … Continue reading Lecturer types
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The social brief
You've seen the movie. The protagonist starts a new school and another kid takes them under their wing and gives them a run down of all the cliques, gangs and posses. Essentially it's a briefing on social skills. "They're nice. They're not nice. Avoid X like the plague, he is a huge bully" A version … Continue reading The social brief
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Morgan had only known permanent jobs. That was until he planned to emigrate and found himself with a week free and in need of cash. So, he sought his uncle and his filling station. Soon he found the benefits of the short contract. There was no pressure to prove oneself or to build something for … Continue reading Here temporarily
Common flaws
"Ugh I hate being flawed it's so average. Especially with such a basic one like low self esteem - yuk how common!" "I should have one of those premium flaws like one of those French looking misunderstood artists." Snobbery can take any form.
Leave power out
I think the trouble people get into with management-subordinate relationships is when they bring power into it. Nobody wants to be dominated and no one wants to be seen as lesser. Therefore the old classics of respect, honesty, and seeing another human being as just another human being is the way to go.
Parakeet ploy
Me thinks the parakeet was used as a ploy for attention. Why? Because firstly small talk was not allowed to commence until the owner found the bird. And secondly, when conversation ran an alternative course the owner kept trying to bring it back to the pet. 'Oh what have you got there you clever boy!' … Continue reading Parakeet ploy
Open book
By spotting their flaw and violently thinking less of them for it, you reveal your own. You can't hide from the psychiatrist. To them your attempts at secrecy read like an open book.
All that matters
Somewhere along the line someone convinced them that winning was all that mattered. And so Monopoly ends in tears, card games descend into arguments and matches lead to fights. Friendships have been broken. Relationships have been fractured. But it was all worth it because they won! Right? Right?!?
Never ready enough
You're never ready enough. Thankfully time knows this and keeps marching on forcing you to confront the challenge as you are.
Thinking out loud
Thinking out loud is a curious thing. It's not meant to be taken seriously, we're just exploring possibilities here after all but it wouldn't be wise to throw in a jokey suggestion. The out loud thinker would not appreciate that. The exercise says: "I'm not convinced of this course of action yet, can I get … Continue reading Thinking out loud
