The task that is known is easy. Starting from scratch is hard. It requires finding your way in the dark and that takes time. A luxury you might not have. But you'll still be held to a tight deadline. And here comes the anxiety! So I think new tasks should always have 'starting from scratch' … Continue reading From scratch →

Once upon a time there was a Basketball player called Genjamin and a player rep called Calfred. And one day Genjamin said to Calfred: 'Can we not train somewhere inside? I keep getting sick from training outside' Now Calfred was supposed to voice all player issues to the player's committee, at least that's what he … Continue reading Genjamin & Calfred →

Those not participating but within earshot of the quiz can't help but reply to the questions out loud when they know the answer.The mind loves answering a question.Someone, not looking at you, could use this to their advantage 😜For example instead of listing what was shit about the day, ask yourself what was good about … Continue reading Question needs answer →

The Last Jedi for me is a selfish movie. It's supposed to be part two out of three but with Rian Johnson killing off the main antagonist for shock factor it left me feeling indifferent about the third instalment. Because Kylo Ren is playing the new Darth Vader character who we know is going to … Continue reading Selfish last Jedi →

In my head justice looks fabulous and tastes deliciously sweet. In reality it's rare I get to sample this scrumptious treat. Even when I have conclusive proof that I'm right and they're wrong! Instead of the delectable confession and absolution of guilt I crave, I've learnt to satiate myself on the mediocre substitute of the … Continue reading Sweet sweet justice →

Two people in desperate need of connection sit side by side in silence. Despite feeling cripplingly lonely they won't speak. They'll just ride out the awkwardness. Dot Dot Dot I think everyone wants to come out of their shell but sometimes (most of the time) they need an excuse to be coaxed out. They need … Continue reading Excuse to exit shell →

Cramming productivity into every nook and cranny of the day does get more done but at the expense of the small unassuming beauties life quietly offers. Like noticing the faint pink in the evening sky or that the cherry blossoms are back in bloom.

I think it's a telltale sign of deep seeded fears when the balance of effort put in and reward gained tips to nonsensical in everyone else's eyes. 'Sorry I can't come out, I have to work on my PHD' Fair. 'Sorry I can't come out, I have to alphabetize the boxes in our attic in … Continue reading Alphabetized attic boxes →

When cutting the lawn with a pair of scissors there is a temptation to power through and get it all done in an hour. But experience shows us that that pace leaves us exhausted and the task still incomplete. The most enjoyable way to do this laborious task is to find a speed that is … Continue reading Cutting grass with scissors →

The coach who must win every game at all costs falls prey to short term thinking. They ignore the weaknesses and resort to basic strategies like 'give our best player the ball'.Whether as the coach who can sacrifice a season and withstand the short term losses in order to build a stronger, more resilient team … Continue reading Short term losses →