The victim blames everyone else for their misfortune. They accumulate a long list of excuses for their lack of success and they cherish this list.
This list is the key to staying a victim.
The opposite of a victim is someone who takes responsibility. Who looks at their life in its current state and says
I am here because of my actions.
The great thing about taking responsibility is that it provides the opportunity for change.
If you are the reason for where your life is right now well then you can also be the reason for how you improve your life.
It’s all in your hands.
Staying the victim means everyone else is to blame but it also means waiting around for someone else to come along and better your life.
It’s up to you really.
Would you rather sit around stewing in your own bitterness blaming everyone else or go out and dance with the setbacks of life?
Thomas Duggan 