The post decision pre result shame trip has to be up there as one of the top ten most infuriating things, it’s right behind slow walkers.
The choice has been made, there’s nothing anyone can do to turn back time, it could prove to be a great decision but someone disapproves and wants to make feel you bad about your decision.
It’s bad enough that we have to deal with our own shame but for someone else to project shame onto you is annoying and unnecessary.
Thomas Duggan 