They don’t want change

How do I life coach someone who doesn’t want to change?

You don’t.

The one crucial foundation stone of change is that they have to want it for themselves.

The best advice in the world falls on deaf ears if they don’t want to hear it.

You can add tension to their life.

Tension is a great change maker.

You can ask difficult questions to make them see the need for change.

But that comes with consequences.

You could be labeled a nagger, they avoid you, and the relationship is tarnished because of it.

While you struggle to accept them for who they are, it could be worth exploring why you need them to change.