Neglect over viciousness

I think neglect can do more damage to a relationship than the most vicious comments.

We all know a familial relationship who say horrendous things to each other but make up and laugh about it.

I think that relationship is stronger than the friendship that splinters when one moves away and doesn’t message any more, to instigate conversation or reply.

As physio’s may put it – is it a rupture or a tear?