It was a funny moment. The rest of the team were agreed they would rather lose the Cup quarter final in order to have a chance at winning the plate competition than get annihilated in the Cup competition. Even though you could argue finishing bottom of the cup meant finishing 4th out of 8 and … Continue reading Lose to win →

It's sad how much we allow others to make us feel bad.Most are not consciously thinking about it, they are just shriveling to this person's negativity.But if we were to select people to be the judge of our self worth wouldn't it be better to pick someone who knows you very well rather than someone … Continue reading Other opinion power →

Gareth sat in the spa with his relaxing towel on his head, draped in a relaxing robe, smelling the relaxing scents and listening to the relaxing music, worrying that he wasn't feeling relaxed enough.

She had a microphone. She had a stage. Her face was on two massive 50 foot high screens. She was singing loudly. With a band backing her up. The whole venue was designed for the audience to look at her. And yet she couldn't hold the attention of numerous people at the concert. Now some … Continue reading Other’s attention →

Jean Luc felt like he was making some very good points to justify his actions. But Pierre kept laying the blame at his door. This felt grossly unfair to Jean Luc as the context proved his innocence but Pierre didn't seem to be listening to it. And from the outside looking in, I think what … Continue reading Jean Luc and Pierre →

Someone is going through a difficult time and it's the elephant in the room but you can't ask about it directly because that would feel like prying. You wait for them to bring it up so you can ask the questions that are burning your insides but they fail to do so. So, you slowly … Continue reading The outer circle →

It's easy to get annoyed with the leaks and mistakes that lead the bad guys to catch up with the good guys but the film needs tension to keep the anxiety going.

Two factors that can show you the character of an employee and indicate the safety in the culture. In a cut throat workplace everyone will scramble to take credit and head for the hills when blame is being assigned. In an environment where employees feel safe to be their best selves, I think you'll see … Continue reading Credit and blame →

This is arguably the most iconic moment in Rugby.https://youtu.be/_t5LzkF3wDc?is=yi5qyY4Jw7zn8mSWJonny Wilkinson at the tender age of 24 steps up to slot a drop goal off his weaker foot to win England their first and only mens world cup with seconds left in extra time.But what I think makes it even cooler is that he had actually … Continue reading Wilko’s not wallowing →

Witnessing Tom Holland cheat on Zendaya would be salacious gossip and it would be understandable to run around telling anyone who would believe you.But there comes a point of digging into the story and the relationship when it switches from news to sadness.To hear about someone genuinely devastated is never fun.When you leave behind the … Continue reading Gossip turned sad →