I think the modern human has learned how to be well behaved in society. Especially how to hold their tongue. Therefore I think the best escapism comes in the form of TV shows, movies, and books where the character says what we would love to say but don't have the courage to do so. We … Continue reading Politeness outlet
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Boredom beats anxiety
I think if you tap into the fast lane of life it's absurdly easy to get anxious and stressed. But I think ever present is the slow lane. A version of your reality that is moving so slowly it bores you. To enter this version you need to put your phone away, don't complete any … Continue reading Boredom beats anxiety
Mayo joy
I think if Kerry had won that all Ireland today it would have timidly moved the emotional needle down in Killarney. It's because it's the expected norm and the standard the fans hold the team to. Which is why they're so great. But it's great for the game and for humanity for Mayo to win … Continue reading Mayo joy
Pretending not to care
The problem was that we got our hopes up and were actually quite hurt by the other person not coming through for us. But we don't want to be a diva. We want to be the cool and resilient type that doesn't get bothered by trivial hurts. But it's hard because the heart or the … Continue reading Pretending not to care
Proposal shocks
I think an engagement proposal shouldn't be a surprise. Maybe a shock in the moment, when you thought it was going to be just another dinner date and all of a sudden they're down on one knee. But not a surprise in the relationship. I reckon after a certain amount of time there should be … Continue reading Proposal shocks
Person research
I think the specialness of an interview is lost on a celebrity. So much of their lives are out in the public domain that it's not surprising when an interviewer has done their research. In fact a celebrity would likely get annoyed if the interviewer did not do their research. But if someone took the … Continue reading Person research
Painful memories
I think you always regret the times you were out of integrity. The moments where you acted rashly or out of fear. These measures will be different for everyone. Remembering a snappy retort could trigger pride or cringe depending on what they value. I don't think anyone is safe from those regrets. Enlightenment doesn't arrive … Continue reading Painful memories
An answer too true
The interviewer was wise and knew the weakness he wanted to probe. He proceeded to bombard the interviewee with enough quick fire questions until he provoked an answer that left the interviewee dumbfounded. Not for a lack of answers or confusion but because of what the interviewee replied with. The interviewee would not have believed … Continue reading An answer too true
Goat status
During the world cup there was so much talk about Lionel Messi being the greatest of all time and pundits and fans would fall over themselves to shower praise on him. But it's funny if you watch the full games, you could take long stretches of play and he would look ordinary, and even disinterested. … Continue reading Goat status
Flying equals waiting
Flying is just waiting. Waiting to check in your bag. Waiting to go through security. Waiting for your food. Waiting to get through passport control. And if you're lucky that's all the waiting you do and you don't have to deal with delays.
