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Obstacle complaints

"It's not fair, it's a rigged game!"Referees get decisions wrong.The hiring process is flawed.Favouritism exists.I don't think anyone would argue that life is fair and I think complaining is a sign of someone who has come across an unjust obstacle that they've decided is too high for them to hurdle.

Increase in numbing

We may never be able to truly know the full extent of how our subconscious is pulling all the strings but I've learnt that 'numbing' is a subtle tactic for avoiding pain. So we can note a baseline and realize that an increase in numbing activity must mean that deep down something is disturbing us.

Self made

The self made man doesn't exist.If you scrutinize hard enough you'll see behind the 'self made man' the village that raised him and all the help he received along the way.Nobody makes it on their own.Therefore is it worth making life harder on yourself by insisting you do it all yourself?

I’ll talk louder

I think those assured in their argument use decibels sparingly. But the insecure and doubtful need volume when expressing their opinions. To hazard a guess at why, I think it's either to sound authoritative or to add an air of aggression to proceedings to intimidate those uncomfortable with confrontation.