The unknown... Keeps us in jobs we hate, Glues us to abusive spouses, Imprisons us in chartered territory. The pain that edges us toward change need only play on our fear of uncertainty to pull us back into those suffocating but familiar arms.
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Fostering belief
How do we turn an adult non-believer into a believer? Well I think the strategy and tactics will depend on the skeptic in front of us. If they are 'feeling inclined' then facts and figures will sail right over their head. If they choose their faith based on who said it, then find a quote … Continue reading Fostering belief
Fear is about
I think when a problem persists and the solution seems absurdly easy, there's fear about. Examples include but are not limited to: A photographer failing to show anyone their photos. A disgruntled spouse who can't seem to voice their bones of contention. An executive unable to ask a clarifying question from someone they frequently work … Continue reading Fear is about
Nervous creator
This blog post is inspired by the following Donald Glover (aka Childish Gambino) quote: "If it makes you nervous, you're doing it right" I find there are levels of risk when it comes to creativity. An example of a tiny amount of risk is when a sitcom decides to have the same characters get up … Continue reading Nervous creator
Career leverage
If I learnt one thing from Cal Newport's 'Be so good they can't ignore you' it's that leverage can greatly benefit your career. Now there are obvious forms of leveraging your career and more hidden forms. An obvious form is using your experience at Facebook to get a job at Google. Or utilising the fact … Continue reading Career leverage
Boring meeting invites
The meeting invites start arriving into inboxes. Some recipients are delighted. A three hour meeting on a super boring topic is a perfect excuse for a paid snooze. But some invitees feel awkward, they suspect this meeting will not be a good use of their time but will they be assertive enough to decline the … Continue reading Boring meeting invites
Time pressure stress
Time pressure has to be the worst kind of stress. You can slap on your headphones, walk away or confront a human trying to pressure you but there's no managing time. It just ticks on second by second, refusing to slow down.
Late across town
"We get there when we get there" A handy phrase when late and immovable traffic stands between you and your destination. Although the line is mind numbingly obvious notice how it doesn't say: "the more you worry the quicker the traffic moves" Furthermore it feels like a resignation to factors beyond our control.
Ironic MBA learning
I read in a book that a clever chap by the name of Clayton Christensen encourages business tycoons to find the 'Job to be done'. Meaning companies should find the purpose of their product for the customers. For example are people buying pens as gifts? Because, if so, that information could be useful for better … Continue reading Ironic MBA learning
Nostalgia attacks
I theorise that nostalgia only strikes when the present is perceived to be worse than the past. Nostalgia never attacks when we're riding high and cashing in. No. Nostalgia comes for you when we're most vulnerable, when we're in a trough, lamenting easier days.
