Immanuel Kant said it was immoral to use people as a means to an end.
I believe that this is true as long as it is disguised as something else: friendship, love etc.
But if the user is up front and honest with the person they’re using I think it removes the immorality.
That way the person being used has the dignity of a choice to enter into this agreement or not.
Then if the person being used ends up getting hurt they have to take responsibility for what they agreed to.
This blog post was inspired by the Bill Withers song ‘Use me’ π
