Not my mess, not my problem

“Not my mess, not my problem!”

A comment that highlights our aversion to work. All of a sudden dirty dishes have become a matter of principle.

We can accept being responsible for cleaning up after ourselves but not others. That’s where we draw the line!

I reckon at the root of this comment is the fear that

‘If I start cleaning up after others then where does it end?’

The mess continues to exist as the group tries to assign accountability.

As everyone has the same view:

“I hate cleaning and I don’t want to be doing any more then I have to!”

‘Have to’ is determined by whatever your social group has deemed ‘fair’.