I think a muddled mind makes for terrible explanations. I always confuse people when I can't comprehend it myself. I usually have to relay the explanation as it was conveyed to me, exactly. Because I don't have enough of an understanding to reword the transfer of knowledge. But if it's clear in my mind then … Continue reading Muddled minds →

I've never put on a gig but as an audience member you get a sense of the balance the artist wants to strike. On the one hand, the audience, wants to hear the hits but on the other, playing the same songs over and over again can be soul crushing, I imagine. So then you … Continue reading Gig balance →

While there were many people in attendance, it was clear that this speech was for one person. The others didn't matter. They would be forgiving of mistakes. They would give the speaker the benefit of the doubt and not ask really tough questions. But that one person. If all the attendees transformed into animals, everyone … Continue reading Cobra and puppies →

It's funny, walking around the park pre 9am, whenever I pass someone they  greet me. Walking around the park on Sunday afternoon when it was packed, nobody even looked up. The difference must be important in the brain. First of all there's less people in the park. Maybe 5 compared to 500 at the weekend. … Continue reading Pre work walk →

I don't know why they bother with post match sports press conferences it's all lies and deflections. What's more the press don't push more on the bold faced lies. They just leave it. I'd love if it was more like a courtroom where attorneys would cross examine coaches and shout - I want the truth! … Continue reading Sports press conferences →

Life is like floating along in a river.It's nice and easy while you're going with the flow.Everything is moving and you feel weightless and in sync with the universe.The constant movement is time is marching ever onward.So when does it become difficult?When we see a certain part of the river bank that we like the … Continue reading River floating →

It's not the painting that matters.It's the painting that matters.Lol You're probably all like what?To the artists who are not going to make it as professionals it's very easy to get hung up on the finished product. Whether as painting can be viewed not as another confirmation of incompetence but an enjoyable calming way to … Continue reading Painting matters →

For humans a park is wide open spaces where you can run around.Yet a car park is where cars are kept in boxes they barely fit in.Really motorways should be call car parks and car parks should be called car offices.Just a lil bit of nonsense for you today.

I never understood the concept of giving someone permission to ruin your day until I saw it in action. Before we went into the pub my friend said: "If they don't have Rekorderlig I am gonna kick off" Thereby setting the conditions for his rage. The pub didn't have Rekorderlig. Which in my mind was … Continue reading No Rekorderlig →

The comment was so dark. In the microsecond after I heard it, I sat there shocked. Then everyone laughed and I was reminded of the comedy threshold for this group. I relaxed and adjusted my conversational settings. ... I think there is so much emotional intelligence under the surface that we don't even notice it … Continue reading A laughing matter →