We torture ourselves with the ‘Will I?’s and we badger others with the ‘Should I?’s and eventually condemn ourselves to frustration and mental anguish.
But to consider some wise words the greatest Headmaster Hogwarts as ever seen, spoken to arguably the greatest student Hogwarts as ever seen:
“Because you, yourself, will never rest until you have tried! We both know it!”
In other words, it’s futile to pretend you’re not going to pursue this Harry so don’t even consider it.
And the same can apply to you.
If you consider yourself a trier, like Harry, then you could save yourself a lot of time, energy and mental agony because you know you ‘will never rest until you have tried!’.
Thomas Duggan 