In the hero story template, the hero meets a mentor, upskills with the mentor and then the mentor steps aside or passes on leaving the hero to face their challenge all by themselves. Which makes a lot of sense to me. After all, with the mentor and their superior capabilities around, the hero is surplus … Continue reading Mentor steps aside →

As well as being relative, time can be a source of guilt. If you believe you have one shot at life, a life that can end at any moment then there is immense pressure to spend each moment wisely. The shame arrives when we look back on the past and tally up all the time … Continue reading Making time →

Today I bought a blazer for €9.69 But that wasn’t scintillating enough for others. The piece of information that really got others excited was the original price. The blazer initially cost €96! That was the news that got jaws dropping. A 90% discount is rare. It’s also a screaming bargain. These reductions are hidden gems … Continue reading 90% Discount →

I reckon 5 star hotel guests are divided into two segments. The pretenders and the jaded. The pretenders are extremely excited guests. Staying in a 5 star hotel is a big deal for them. They love the subtle touches of sophistication and refinement. They squeal at the bathrobes marvel at the service and broaden their … Continue reading 5 star pretenders →

‘What is the purpose of this exercise?’ Most people don’t ask that question. Most people accept the explanation and follow instructions. They don’t question the instructor because questioning the instructor might offend them and might earn you a confrontation you don’t want. Although it may be scary to ask, this is a valuable question. ‘What’s … Continue reading What’s the purpose? →

This trail is 8.7km, with varying terrains, an incline ranging between 20% and 50%, and it should take you 4 hours to walk (5 hours if you have an instagram account). There are photos to remember the occasion and there are photos for social media. They are two different beasts and have very different requirements. … Continue reading Trail for the gram →

In IKEA I saw a standing desk with a price tag of €500. €500! I am confident you could assemble a standing desk from ordinary items you find around your house. Another option is to buy a bed in breakfast tray with legs and place it on top of the kitchen table. Alternatively I’m sure … Continue reading IKEA standing desk →

Running barefoot in the grass was the done thing as a kid. Shoes and socks were sent flying as you tore away from the adults as fast as you could breaking all the world records. But as an adult, something as insignificant and trivial as running barefoot in the grass has become a risky activity. … Continue reading Barefoot grass running →

The rules of funerals are very clear. Wear black, look sad and show respect. Laughing at funerals is a big no no. Funerals are supposed to be formal and serious matter not a time for enjoyment. And yet grief doesn’t seem to care about formality. Grief has its own unpredictable agenda. From the outside grief … Continue reading Laughing at funerals →

In Carol Dweck’s book ‘Mindset’ she talks about the difference between a Fixed Mindset and a Growth Mindset.  It’s a great book and well worth a read!  If you have read it then you already know what I’m talking about and if you haven’t read it by now, I shall attempt a small synopsis.  A … Continue reading The Growth Mindset →