I think the best teachers are good at finding out your competency level and then leaving sufficient breadcrumbs to get you to the desired level. It requires patience and empathy and a teacher that will guide you through that journey is worth their weight in gold Because unfortunately, not everyone has these qualities.

You often see the statement 'everyone deserves love' in mental books and I find it problematic. Because the question springs to mind: So, Hitler deserved love? Surely not, right? There needs to be some clarification in the statement, some nuance added to make sense of it all. Unless you rephrase it to maybe: 'everyone needs … Continue reading Everyone deserves love →

Logic dictates that you take the simplest route to complete the task. For example Alex, the Head of Castleknock GAA doesn't want Frank being the caretaker anymore, so logic would say Alex goes over to Frank and tells him so. But humans feel feelings and Alex is registering fear at the prospect of this interaction. … Continue reading Logic and fear →

It's funny how in the moment you may have felt supremely confident in your actions and elated at the outcome but then some time passes and the second round of emotions roll in and they're negative. All of a sudden a glorious moment becomes the source of overthinking, guilt, shame, and sadness. I think the … Continue reading Second round emotions →

I think the optimal amount of life to fake having left in order to foster a wise perspective is one year. One day is too short. It encourages reckless behaviour. Five years is too long to create enough tension for any kind of change. But pretending this could be your last summer will make you … Continue reading Fake life left →

She sounded like she was enrolled in the cause. She even offered to take on some responsibility. Then her actions made a mockery of her words. It's tempting to assume ill intent, label them a liar and cut them out of your life. But I'd say 9 times out of ten they're probably just struggling … Continue reading Actions and words →

This text is in blue. I didn't know you could do that. Ah I lost it. Nevermind. Anywho... The Tao talks about the flow of the universe and getting into that natural slipstream. Which sounds a lot like fate. But may be a more palatable version of the 'wider plan' to those who grew up … Continue reading Blue text →

Cunk on Earth is a great example of people dying to give a factual answer despite the obvious comedic traps laid before them. That or the fear of being recorded giving a silly answer.

When I had breakfast the cat was napping in the sunshine in my garden. When I had lunch the cat was napping in the sunshine in my garden. When I was playing football in my garden, the cat briefly raised his head and opened his eyes but quickly went back to napping. It was only … Continue reading Napping Cat →

The Greek gods were more flawed than the one Christian god. Zeus got up to all sorts of hijinks, coming down to earth with his shape shifting adultery. I'm neither an ancient Greek or a Christian but it appears that the greeks made role models that were more reflections of humans rather than a perfect … Continue reading Greek Gods →