Turtling

When the turtle feels unsafe he retreats into his shell. I can relate! Whenever I feel insulted or criticised I find myself withdrawing mentally from the conversation. I believe it's a protection mechanism. But after reading 'Nasty People' I have seen the light! Jay Carter talks about how the introversion reaction is not the most … Continue reading Turtling

Tension inducing

Their reputation preceded them. So much so, that it actually prepared the room for them. Their imminent arrival will put everyone in the vicinity on edge. So that when they enter their mere presence will add tension. They need not utter a syllable and the air will be thick with anxiety.

Why?

I think the 'Why?' question serves different functions in an organisational setting. When it is between two individuals of the same status it is usually in the form of a complaint. 'Why the hell are we doing this task. Surely this is someone else's job!' But when the Why is run up the flag pole … Continue reading Why?