If you really want to get it done, you have to carve out time for it. You have to make it a priority. You have to sacrifice some other activity for it. Otherwise the nearest and loudest distractions will dictate the agenda and you'll never get round to the projects you desire. It takes commitment … Continue reading Spending time wisely →

Bert & Ernie used to be best mates. Especially in the Sesame street days, they were inseparable. Then Sesame street got cancelled. Ernie stated looking for work whilst Bert took to the drink. Ernie found a job and Bert became an alcoholic. Quickly Bert's drinking led to lashing out at Ernie. The relationship soured and … Continue reading Bert and Ernie →

If you spend most of your time simply following orders then any situation without instructions will understandably make you very nervous. You have very little practice in figuring it out without a guide so it's only natural to panic. The good news is that this is a skill you can develop, the bad news is … Continue reading Following Instructions →

There are two blogs I subscribe to - Seth Godin's and Hugh MacLeod (Gaping Void). Both blogs post daily but one does all the writing and the other outsources. It was actually through Seth that I came across Hugh's blog. Seth recommended one of Hugh's books, which I read and loved, so I instantly went … Continue reading Seth v Hugh →

The latest Star Wars movie comes out in December and I can't wait to see it. The teasers have played their role brilliantly, they alluded to action whilst not revealing the whole story and it's done a job on me. It's created a desire and a need in me, namely: I need to know what … Continue reading Star Wars Tension →

One of the great things about Rick and Morty is the variety in alien races. The writers show great creativity in coming up with unique looks and characteristics for their alien tribe creations. The best alien races, in my opinion, are the ones that show distinctly human traits. You can tell that the writers are … Continue reading Aliens with human traits →

At off the ball, all the retired players spoke freely of their time in professional rugby. Whether as when these players were being interviewed whilst still playing they were extremely vague and had their guard up constantly. Safe to say it made for very boring interviews. So what was different? I think it was the … Continue reading Players opening up →

I have to says: I'm forced to be here, I am present against my will and I have no choice in the matter.   I get to says: I had other options and I chose to be here. The key difference is in the choice.  You may not believe me when I say you always have a … Continue reading I have to v I get to →

You want to watch the Rugby World Cup final in the comfort of your own home but you don't have the channel. Your mate tells you about a 'doohickey' that you can connect to your TV to get it for free. If you go into the shop now, looking for a 'doohickey', you could be … Continue reading What does a doohickey look like? →

Meticulous planning can help an immense amount, but against the randomness of life, a confidence to handle whatever comes one's way is more important.