Certain wing mirrors carry a small message on them - warning: objects in mirror are closer then they appear. I think the same should be done when being nostalgic - warning: these rose tinted glasses only show the positive experiences. Or even hindsight - warning: the answer will appear obvious now that you know the … Continue reading Warnings →

Holiday itineraries are about relaxing and regretting. On the one hand you’re on holidays and you want to relax and on the other hand the potential regret of not taking advantage of this opportunity of time or location pushes you to achieve something.

In the situation of a live interview: The interviewee wants to look good. The audience wants to see/hear something interesting. And it all hangs on the interviewer. What is their goal? Do they want to make the interviewee look good? Or do they want to provide the audience with something interesting to see/hear? The interviewer's … Continue reading Live interviews →

Bureaucracy is great for preventing embezzling but terrible for reacting quickly.

What this project needs is someone to care. Someone who wants to gain forward motion and see this through to the end. Without someone who cares the project will stall at every minor obstacle and shuffle along to the finish line (most likely late).   People will care if they are personally invested in the … Continue reading Someone who cares →

I was at an Irish football game recently and fortunately I was sitting in the season ticket holders section. Two sections over were the die hard fans. You know they are the die hard fans because they stand up for the entire game (which I thought was ironic since they paid for a seat). Anywho, … Continue reading Chanting Adoption →

The fact that the conversation could seamlessly transition from the obligatory small talk to the deep and meaningful and back without any discomfort was the sign of a true connection.

The flight was delayed. The underground trains weren’t working. The taxi man got lost. The group are frustrated and tired and start to wonder what else could possibly go wrong? But then they start to see the funny side of the situation. They start to make jokes about how horribly wrong it’s all going and … Continue reading Owning the situation →

Gilbert loves planning. He regularly draws up weekly, monthly and yearly plans. Unfortunately Gilbert also suffers from a fatal flaw, he cannot resist the nearest and loudest emergency that inevitably comes up every day. His inability to sacrifice the short term task to pursue his long term goals means that he never gains forward motion … Continue reading Project Graveyard →

Some people have a go to reason for not doing better. Once you remove that reason and show them a way to overcome their obstacle, they become terrified. Because now they no longer have any excuses for not doing better. You've robbed them of their hiding spot, they're now out in the open with nothing … Continue reading Removing excuses →