Harry Potter, Dune, and Lord of the Rings, are all examples of books that have been adapted to the big screen. So you would think fans of the books would enjoy the movies. Yeah maybe but not one fan type. The zealot. This type of fan is too close to the books to enjoy any … Continue reading Dune Zealots →

I think being able to distinguish between a human flaw and destructive behaviour is an invaluable skill to have. For example, I think getting frustrated watching Man United lose yet again or a snarky comment when under pressure is permissible. Nobody's perfect, everyone gets stressed. But upending the table in anger, smashing plates to make … Continue reading Imperfect or destructive →

Picture the scene, the suffragettes have just started their campaign for equal rights and we're occupying the head of a man sympathetic to their cause. "On the one hand I believe their movement is important and I could help it by showing my public support." "But on the other hand, to assist such a controversial … Continue reading Suffragette men →

It's funny how you can play on the heartstrings of sports fans with just a simple slow motion montage and inspiring music. It instantly turns an ordinary forgettable game into a battle of titans where heroism reigns supreme. Suddenly the fans picture a dramatic last minute goal to win the game and clutch victory from … Continue reading Slow motion sport montages →

The status quo is truly a worthy opponent. It turns bright young sparks into jaded cynical old cranks. It requires an indomitable spirit and an indefatigable persistence to change it. So bright young sparks I think you should be sympathetic to the beaten down old cranks because they probably tried. Also they might not be … Continue reading Changing the status quo →

You know your stand up set didn't quite hit the mark when the first thing an audience member says is: 'That's a great jacket you're wearing!' Yes it can be disappointing that they didn't like the jokes you told but on the bright side at least they care enough about your feelings to find something … Continue reading Great jacket! →

I think deep psychology is scary to most. I think it shatters the illusion that we are wise rational beings. To see merit in a deeper more sadistic motive behind decisions can be disturbing. We'd like to think we are evolved creatures who make informed decisions, not that we chose inferior friends so that we … Continue reading Psychological digging →

I feel like a fraud. I can't say with certainty that my way is right. It could be wrong. It could be very wrong! And the points those challengers are making, have merit to them. They could be right. How can I go on with this doubt? How can I look someone in the eye … Continue reading Imposter syndrome →

Jamie uses Tinder. Jamie gets lots of matches. But Jamie never replies to any messages. I suspect Jamie uses Tinder for the validation. Because here we have an easy way to see how many people find Jamie attractive. A quantifiable number that otherwise requires mind-reading to figure out.

Isn't it funny that you could go to a school reunion and end up only talking to the people you are in regular contact with? Like doesn't that miss the point? Aren't you supposed to attend a reunion to reconnect with those you've fallen out of touch with? But at the same time, it makes … Continue reading Reunion cliques →