Caring less

Things did not go as planned. Expectations were not met, disappointment soon followed. Where do we go from here?Engage less? Care less? Mail it in? Lower expectations?It's not very fulfilling to engage less. Engaging less is a slippery slope to apathy. What if you put your effort into a new avenue? At least then you're … Continue reading Caring less →

Toxic masculinity

The solution to toxic masculinity is bravery in my opinion.Not battlefield bravery but bravery to risk the shame and ridicule of talking about emotions.It's an odd paradox.Men pride themselves on their strength and yet won't talk about topics that will make them mentally stronger.

For not to

Tony Robbins often says ‘Life doesn’t happen to you, it happens for you.’ and I think what this word play alludes to is difficulty.It’s very easy to play the victim card to life’s random events bemoaning your luck and how bad things always happen to you.But if you say ‘Life doesn’t happen to you, it … Continue reading For not to →